Welcome to the Be The First Community.

Your room, your people, your space to do the work and feel the difference. I am so glad you’re here.

This video is the best place to start. In just a few minutes I'll walk you through the community, show you where everything lives, and tell you exactly what to do first. So from the moment you finish watching, you'll feel right at home.

It's worth watching before you dive in. Everything you need is here and I can't wait for you to experience it.

Your coach,
Caroline

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Your First Steps

DO THESE FIRST. IT WON'T TAKE LONG.

Step 1

HOW WE SHOW UP HERE

Before anything else, read our community agreement. It sets the tone for everything that happens in this space.


Step 2

CLAIM YOUR NAME 

Go to the Claim Your Name channel, introduce yourself and share the story of your name. You'll know why when you get there. 


Step 3

ADD THE CALLS TO YOUR DIARY

These calls are where the real work happens. Don't miss them.

  • Founding Member Goal Setting Call - Monday 11th May at 1:00pm UK → Add Goal Setting Call to Diary

  • Weekly Hot Seat Coaching - every Wednesday at 1pm UK → Add Hot Seat Coaching to Diary

    Note: The first Wednesday of every month is our Monthly Identity Course Deep Dive. We will use the same Zoom link as the weekly coaching call.

    When joining any call, please make sure to sign into Zoom using the same email address you used to enrol in Be The First. This helps us verify your identity quickly while you're in the waiting room.


Step 4

BOOK YOUR FOUNDING MEMBER 1:1 CALL WITH CAROLINE

As a founding member, you have a 30-minute 1:1 call with Caroline to use within your first year in the Membership. Click here to book your 1:1 call


Step 5

ACCESS ON THE GO - COMING SOON

Once the Be The First app is available, you'll be able to access everything on your phone, on your commute, whenever you need it. We'll let you know as soon as it's ready.

Finding Your Way Around

To make navigation easy, everything in this community has its own space. Here's a quick guide to the sidebar on your left so you always know exactly where to go.

  • The Room 
    • Your everyday space to connect, check in, and chat with the people in this community. Show up here however you need to. No agenda required.  
  • Coaching Calls 
    • Find upcoming Hot Seat Coaching Calls and Identity Course Deep Dives here and add them to your diary.  
  • Start Here
    • New to the community? This is your first stop. Everything you need to get started is here. Come back to it anytime you need a reminder of where things live.   
  • Identity Course 
    • Five steps to building your Imposter Speech®. Start here and work through it at your own pace.  
  • Imposter Speech® Review 
    • When you're ready for my personal feedback on your completed Speech, submit it here.   
  • Private Podcast 
    • Every Hot Seat Coaching Call and Identity Course Deep Dive Call replay available as audio, anytime. Catch up on your commute, at your desk, in your own time. A growing library of real-world coaching always there when you need it. 
  • Announcements 
    • Updates and news from me regarding the Membership. Keep an eye on this space so you never miss anything important.
  • Claim Your Name 
    • Your first post in this community. Introduce yourself and share the story of your name. Read others' stories here too. This is one of the most powerful spaces in the whole community.
  • Wins & WAINs 
    • This is where you celebrate and internalise your wins. A promotion, a moment of confidence, a conversation you used to avoid. All of it belongs here. No win is too small.
  • Consolidation Month
    • April, August and December are our Consolidation Months. This means time when you implement and consolidate your progress and catch up on homework or coursework.
  • Ask Caroline 
    • Bring your topic requests for future calls with Caroline.
  • Support
    • Please direct all requests for tech or admin support here.

For 1:1 and Group Coaching Members 

You have more waiting for you. 

As a coaching member, you have a private space created just for you - with channels, calls, and resources specific to your coaching experience. Your private space will appear in the sidebar on your left, right underneath the Be The First Membership channels.

Everything above is yours too, and your private space is an additional layer on top.

Our Community Agreement

We lead with generosity. Celebrate each other's wins as if they were your own. Share what's working for you because someone in this room needs to hear it.

We protect what's shared here. What happens in Be The First stays in Be The First. Members share vulnerable, personal things in this space. Please honour that by keeping their stories within the community. Chatham House Rules apply. Read those rules here.

We make space for all of it. The hard days and the good ones. The doubts and the breakthroughs. The half-formed thoughts and the fully formed Speeches. You do not have to have it together to show up here.

We keep this space ad-free. This community exists for your growth, not for selling. Please avoid promoting services or opportunities without checking with Caroline first. Unauthorised promotions or adverts will be removed without notice or warning.

We show up as ourselves. No performing. No pretending. The only version of you that belongs here is the real one.

Agreeing to and abiding by the Community Agreement is a condition of your Membership. Caroline reserves the right to remove any posts or activity which breaches this Agreement. Persistent breaches which compromise or negatively impact the safety or spirit of this community may lead to disqualification from the Community.

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